Have you ever loved? How much have you loved? Modern science can measure how intense your love is by measuring the chemicals that's produced in your brian when you think of the one you love. Very moving video.
The Love Competition from Brent Hoff on Vimeo.
Excerpt from Wikipedia about the chemicals that's related to the experience of love:
Studies in neuroscience have involved chemicals that are present in the brain and might be involved when people experience love. These chemicals include: nerve growth factor, testosterone, estrogen, dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. Adequate brain levels of testosterone seem important for both human male and female sexual behavior. Dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin are more commonly found during the attraction phase of a relationship. Oxytocin and vasopressin seemed to be more closely linked to long term bonding and relationships characterized by strong attachments.
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
Dating Book Recommendations
Over the past 4 years, I have read many books on dating and relationships. Here I'd like to share a few of my favorite that has benefitted my own life tremendously. Enjoy!
Always Talk to Strangers: 3 Simple Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life Excellent practical dating advice that works! I have tried practice some of the things described in this book. It makes you much more comfortable and natural when going on a date. This book is on: Where to meet your potential date, how to start talking to them and how to leave a great impression.

Sworn by lots of men as the best practical pick up book ever. Although I do not subscribe to the philosophy behind it, it is a great book to help men who do not know how to effectively approach a woman to start on their game. I'm recommending this book esp to women, for them to be able to tell genuine interests, v.s. some one who is just playing a game.

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That LastsThis is the BEST relationship book that I have ever read. I think this is a must read for everyone in order to maintain a ever lasting, loving, and romantic relationship. This has been translated to over 36 languages, and sold over 5 million copies.
Always Talk to Strangers: 3 Simple Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life Excellent practical dating advice that works! I have tried practice some of the things described in this book. It makes you much more comfortable and natural when going on a date. This book is on: Where to meet your potential date, how to start talking to them and how to leave a great impression.


A great book on understanding how men and women think and act differently. If you think the book might be too long, take a quick a look at Dr. John Gray's Tedx Talk here.
Great book detailed basic manners for men. What to do to leave the impression of a gentleman. Toilet seat up for down? :)

- "He sends you flowers when you really need is time to talk. She give you a hug when what you really need is a home-cooked meal. The problem isn't your love life, it's your love language!"
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Friday, February 10, 2012
Nerd Love! Pick your coefficients, and see the love.
Here are some nerdy love for you. Do you know the solution to the following equation?
sqrt(cos(x))cos(300x)+sqrt(abs(x))-0.7)(4-x*x)^0.1, sqrt(6-x^2), -sqrt(6-x^2) from -4.5 to 4.5
Well, if you want to find out, search it on google. You can even play with the coefficients and pick your preferred shape of love. Only I wish you can pick the color as well. Or maybe it is only presented in the color of engineers?
Challenge: Can you come up with more equations to add an arrow to the heart?
sqrt(cos(x))cos(300x)+sqrt(abs(x))-0.7)(4-x*x)^0.1, sqrt(6-x^2), -sqrt(6-x^2) from -4.5 to 4.5
Well, if you want to find out, search it on google. You can even play with the coefficients and pick your preferred shape of love. Only I wish you can pick the color as well. Or maybe it is only presented in the color of engineers?
Challenge: Can you come up with more equations to add an arrow to the heart?
Saturday, February 4, 2012
Speed Dating on 2/2 matched over 50 pairs.
It was a great success!!! 20 guys and 22 ladies showed up for our 2/2 speed dating event. Participants are so engaging -- we had to push everyone of them to the next table after every 5-minute round!
And now, the results are out! Over 50 matching pairs! How exciting!
We are so happy for you guys! Thank you all for joining us, and best wishes to all and the upcoming dates! Happy Valentine's! And hope you enjoyed the cookies we home baked for you.
P.S. 3 guys and 2 ladies forgot to submit their work sheets. Send an email to us of your choices. :D
And now, the results are out! Over 50 matching pairs! How exciting!
We are so happy for you guys! Thank you all for joining us, and best wishes to all and the upcoming dates! Happy Valentine's! And hope you enjoyed the cookies we home baked for you.
P.S. 3 guys and 2 ladies forgot to submit their work sheets. Send an email to us of your choices. :D
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
I am one year old! 两颗红豆一岁了!
2RedBeans is one year old!
What an exciting year of 2011. We'd love to thank all our friends and users for supporting us, helping us improve the experience for Chinese singles. We were so excited when we heard our users met on 2RedBeans and got married!! Hope to hear more exciting news in the coming year of 2012.
两颗红豆一岁了!在过去的一年中,多多感谢朋友,用户,对我们的支持。当我们在短短的几个月之内就听到用户的好消息时,心中如此的开心。我们整个team迫不及待得再等待你们2012年中更多的好消息。
Check out our newest event, 给美女投票了。
With lots of Love,
2RedBeans Team.
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